Even though there may be times when families may feel justifiably helpless, their situation is rarely hopeless

“Even though there may be times when families may feel justifiably helpless, their situation is rarely hopeless.
So many factors influence a person’s relationship to a group that even those of us who have worked in this field for years regularly encounter pleasant surprises. So don't give up hope.

Beneficial changes in your loved one may occur because of events that have nothing to do with your actions (e.g., a growing disillusionment with the group; an accumulation of small grievances against leaders; dissension within the group). Some group members achieve enough independence from their group to maintain or reestablish a respectful and loving relationship with their family, even though they may remain group members. Remember, people are different and will respond in different ways to the same group environment, which itself can change over time.”

this was taken with permission from the ICSA (International Cultic Studies Association) website. Please click the link in the subject line to read the full report. It is very helpful.